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Originally Posted by SouthernFratter
Well, our house is similar, a gay kid who comes through rush is going to get walked right back out the door and told to stop wasting his time at our house and go somewhere where he'll fit in.
And if a brother came out of the closet, I would be willing to bet he wouldn't stay active long. Why would I want to be in an organization with people that I'm not comfortable being around? We've got communal showers and I wouldn't be comfortable showering with the gay kid, and honestly I would just rather be around straight guys in general, I've got more in common with them. So I have no qualms in saying that my house wouldn't accept a gay pledge/brother.
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I completely understand this line of reasoning.
So would you be heartbroken if you found out that a brother you showered with (do you shower
with?) came out of the closet after a year or two of seeing your naked buns?
And for the record, while it's difficult to wrap your mind around showering around someone who is interested in men, many gay men are
just not that into you.