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Originally Posted by MysticCat
Let me get this straight. You're not engaged yet, and you're asking people on a web forum for help in finding a solution -- which according to you could be splitting up, talking or something else -- about the "issue" of what food to serve at the reception? (Okay, to be a little more charitable, about how to keep from offending his more observant not-immediate-family relatives at the wedding.)
Did I get that right?
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LOLOLOLOLOLOL.
DTMFA, Taualumna. Is that what you want or need to hear? Because otherwise, you've heard perfectly good suggestions already and you continue to ask the exact same questions as though this is some intractable, immovable obstacle to your having a wedding. Have a civil ceremony and a cocktail reception, don't offer food. Elope and have two receptions. Tell his (apparently distant) relatives to suck it up and deal with having kosher food on one side of the room and nonkosher on the other or feel free to not attend and you'll send pictures. And really, if this is what you think could trip up or end your relationship, you all won't make it very long in an actual marriage. His sister seems to have found a way to deal with it, why can't you?