Hi Kelly,
To answer your comments, I was simply commenting that the effort that goes into creating an anthology along the lines of "Chicken Soup for the Soul" (as an example) is much different than an original creative work. I wasn't trying to imply that you'd be sitting on your ass like a fat cat
, while "we" all did the work, but it probably came out wrong!
The only reason it matters to me whether you're Greek or not, is because I figure that if you were, you might understand why these stories are not something I would necessarily want floating around. Because I don't know you personally, I wouldn't take for granted what your approach would be. Don't think I'm assuming the worst of you or anything, it's just that not all editors actually come back and get approval from their informal contributors, - and perhaps the reason I'm a little sceptical is because I know cases where this has not happened and the person has been misquoted. I am also a little confused - first it seems that you want to print this book to improve the reputation of Greek Life, which is fine. But then you say that you assume that only the contributors would read it, and I would assume that the contributors already have a good impression of the System. Anyway, maybe you can see why I have questions here.
I understand that there is a lot of negative press the Greek System receives, but I don't think the answer is to publish a book. The way that Fraternities and Sororities are going to fight the negative stereotypes is by continuing to be active and visible in the community, become outstanding scholars and leaders, etc. Again, this is just my opinion.
For me, it's not about how much money is made, or that I want my cut or something -
I am fully aware that Greek Life is full of profit hounds - but that doesn't make me like it or accept it any more. In fact, I try to buy my paraphanalia directly from my own organization - whose intentions I trust. There are also companies that I've bought from in the past, when I've had to, that give part of their proceeds back to a charity. So, please don't assume that ALL members are stupid and buy things from anyone who slaps their letters on a shirt, etc.
As I tried to state in my first message, I'm not angry or trying to be bitchy, I am just expressing my opinion, which you solicited. I sincerely wish you the best, no matter what you do, because I'm sure you have the best of intentions.
Thanks,
Carrie