[lil_sunshine]

It's your life and engagement, so if you feel that you're doing the right thing, don't sweat the small stuff!

1. I feel that every person matures at different times, and I don't have a problem with people btwn the ages of 21-until getting married, as long as they feel they can handle the responsibility of what it entails. They must also realize that marriage is a major step in a relationship.

2. Formalities aren't always necessary, but some bridal consultants may consider it proper etiquette to do any or all of the things you mentioned.

3. I like diamond engagement rings, but if he isn't able to afford it, I'd prefer for him to get a ring that comes from the heart. I think a lot of people lose sight of what to look for in a marriage b/c they spend soooo much of their time planning their wedding instead of planning how they want to spend the rest of their lives together. Now do you see why sooooo many celebrity marriages end in divorce? Big diamonds and weddings aren't always the move, people!!!!!