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Originally Posted by tld221
can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?
does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"
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It sho don't.
And you'll notice that men who are truly secure in their masculinity and their accomplishments are least likely to do the cat calling. Unless they are succumbing to peer pressure, perhaps.
I can think of instances where females have done catcalling as a joke to tease men and let them know how stupid it is. And I can also think of the "types of men" that I can expect catcalling from versus "the types of men" who are more likely to express my hotness in a smarter way.
