[HBADPi]

FI and I were invited to a Monday lunch wedding for the daughter of a family friend. Since it is in northern California and we are trying to save our vacation days for our HM, we wont be able to attend but I am a little uncertain how much I should spend on their gift. When FI and I get married I dont have expectations that our guests who do not attend will spend as much as those who do attend but I've never really been in this situation since most of my friends have yet to get married.

Can anyone provide any suggestions?