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Old 05-08-2008, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTRen13 View Post
Arranged marriages can be consensual. Of course this isn't always the case, but if both parties WANT an arranged marriage, then what's the problem?
so I guess I should also say....if you choose not to have the choice, it is a choice. I feel like I'm going to fly up my own butt.

At any rate...I just don't think you can compare the cults to the above situation that goes on in normal society. Once the girl turns 18, and the guy is 41, then magically it's fine? I think that's a little silly. Is that normal for most teenagers? No. But I don't doubt that some of them definitely have the upper hand in the relationships...regardless of age.
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