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Originally Posted by TotallyWicked
Thus, coming to college was their first exposure to mass diversity (my school is located on the 2nd most diverse neighborhood in the nation).
Now there are several ways to look at this:
1) they are going for the first person who is unlike them racially/ethnically because of their past experiences
2) they are embracing the diversity of the neighborhood (reaching I know  )
3) They grew up not wanting to be with someone of their racial/ethnic group
and various more...in the long run, I am hoping that my friends are aware of the consequences and possible reactions of people...some of my other friends really go all out to say "Yeah, we're dating and you can't do anything about it!"....I'm like ok..pass the salt LOL |
How come these friends of yours just cannot say to folks that saw each other and fell in love? Or like, whatever, they found uniqueness between each other that they decided to date. Cool Beans, whatever...
But to say, Black women aren't ______________. Well, that just sucks.