wow what a commotion! Well as always I have to drop my two cents on the matter. Well kids(no pun intended) it is the internet, there are tons and tons of creeps a like all over our little lovely Cyberspace community. although Hurleygirl, I am truly sorry for such a distatseful pm that was sent to you or your sister, but it does happen, especially here on the internet.
Although, I don' t think all this commotion/drama should be dropped on SOME (not all as we have seen) of the great guys here on GC. Although they may have their faults (sorry guys, u know what I mean) they are still some pretty great people.
I also think in the future we all know such things go on, there are things u can do blocking the address, the screename, and so forth, alerting the moderator for that forum or really any moderator. As well as the big kahuna John.
But thats just my two cents, hope all is well for everyone
DGP~Honey~