Well, I still live with my mother and my mother and my father (deceased 10 years ago) took care of me from birth all the way to end of college. I never really didn't want my mother to continue paying my bills. Even though I still stay with my mother, I pay my own bills and I in return do things for her. I never went to public schools. I went to private schools, which cost MOOLAH!!!!!!!!!!!! So, how do I deal with adulthood? I had to accept the fact that Life Goes On and I cannot go backwards. I have go forwards. If I want to live, I must deal with life by taking care of business. It's all mental. However, don't leave GOD out of it.