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Before I met the person we'll call The Guy, I would swear to you that I had been in love a few times. A few months into our relationship my answer would have been, "Those other guys? That wasn't love. Lots of infatuation maybe, but not love." And I'm 31.
I have a very good friend that is 28 and has been on less than 6 dates in his life. Never had a real relationship. He's cute as hell, intelligent, lots of fun, completely straight, just completely picky. I personally think that he'll be alone until he's about 45 because of the pickiness...
I wouldn't consider it a red flag. I would consider whether his personality indicates that it was pickiness, carefulness, disinterest, focusing on other areas of his life, etc. I know many people that chose to focus on school and then career without the messiness of relationships getting in their way because they were afraid it would be a distraction that they didn't want to deal with. Now they're 30+ and looking.
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Sorry, I can’t. It’s baseball/basketball/archery season.
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