[Zillini]

I can relate to what the OP is talking about. I realized at an fairly early age that I'm the same way. When I'm in a social situation with people I don't know, my mind goes blank. I literally can't think of anything to say. Then for some reason I'll don't understand my shyness comes across as being aloof (or so I've been told). But if I know the people, I'll talk their ear off.

There will always be necessary social situations in your life where you must force yourself to come out of your shell. Recruitment is only one of those. It is not easy, but you have to do it. Practice conversations with as many people as you can. Have them pretend they don't know you. Come up with a list of topics to talk about or questions to ask that you can call upon in your mind if the conversation drags. Than ask your friends, parents, brothers, sisters, anyone you know to help you out by asking people they know that you don't if they would help you practice. Shyness isn't easy to overcome, but you can do it.