[rhoyaltempest]

If you are active in an alumni chapter perhaps you can visit your undergrad chapter by supporting them as an alumni member. Speaking as an NPHC alumnae member who was an undergrad member years ago, I still visit my undergrad chapter often since my alumnae chapter advises my undergrad chapter (and always has) and since we try to support all of the undergrad chapters that we advise. But when I talk about supporting them, I'm not talking about partying with them. I'm talking about attending their events and programs to show our support. I think it's okay to party with your undergrad chapter sometimes if you recently graduated a year or two ago maybe.