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Old 05-03-2008, 07:09 PM
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Let me tell you a secret. Ask a person about themself, and they will think that you are a brilliant conversationalist. People LOVE to talk about themselves. I am sure that within a few minutes of talking to ANYONE, you will hear SOMETHING that you can talk about.

Even if you don't have the same interests at all, if someone is talking about, for example, how much they love yoga, and you have never tried it before and don't understand what it's all about, or even think it's kooky - you can respond back with something that YOU are passionate about, or something that you like to do for relaxation or exercise.

So while it may seem that you have nothing in common with most people, remember that we all have hobbies, families, favorite places, passions. If you really LISTEN, you will realize that you have a lot more in common with people than you initially thought.
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