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Originally posted by Professor
I suggest that you try to be a friend before you venture to the next step. Knowing that this guy has some issues why set yourself up when you know he is not emotionally ready. The same thing applies for women. Give the guy a break and try being frinds.
Also, have you thought that maybe this guy is not for you. 
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I was thinking the same thing. I know you asked the fellas, but if he still has wounds that need to heal, then it doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship (and possibly isn't a good candidate).
He has to get past the hurt and learn how to trust again. Just make sure you're not putting more effort into his healing than he actually is...