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Old 05-03-2008, 12:07 AM
brownsugardivah brownsugardivah is offline
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Although you have over 3 pages of advice Im going to add some more haha.

I dont think you should move in with him would be MY advice. WHY because I see so many of my friends move in with their partners and the relationship ends up messing up. Moving too soon and too fast could cause detrimental problems in the relationship in the long run. You truly find out who a person REALLY is if you live with him. Personally, I dont believe in living together until you are married, because it just creates too much of a problem. Because once you live together you take on different roles that really arent meant for this stage in ya'll relationship. Especially being the only woman in the house, they may start to view you as the "woman of the house' and you might subconsciously start to take on the role of "wife" before you actually are. Suppose ya'll break up? Then the legal stuff as far as the lease and everything gets in the way. I dunno...i would think about it...but the relationship could grow really old really quick if you move too fast. Because then you wont have anything to look forward to in the future.
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