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Originally Posted by tenniscutie1208
Well i actually went to the national website for the sorority, and sent an e-mail and got a response that i was still an active new member which confuses me since i know that i signed the form to de-pledge. i'm not sure why the form was never sent or why my status stayed as an active new member, but if i AM an active nm, i'm not sure what to put on the recruitment form for the new school because they will ask when i de-pledged... i suppose i'll put the date i de-pledged...
but thanks to all of you
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The important part is that you signed the form, that you were NOT initiated and that you transferred. Put the date you signed the form. If the Panhellenic at your new school for some reason, says that you're ineligble (doubtful), then call the chapter you began pledging at your old school to fax/scan/mail the depledging form you signed.
A bid is binding for a calendar year unless you transfer, which you did. So, even without signing the form, I would think you would be fine. I'd recommend calling the Greek Life Office at your new school to sort this out sooner rather than later just to make sure so you don't have to worry about it.
As a depledged transfer, you are as free as any PNM going through. The sorority you began pledging does not have to offer you a bid (but you might end up there if you are a good fit at your new school too), nor are you bound to them. Good luck with recruitment at your new school and keep us posted!