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Originally posted by SAEguy
Ok it took me awhile due to class, but I can now defend my position! The comment about the random bum, was this: Anyone at any time in a society as social as ours can ask or say something that will offend us. It's just something you have to deal with. You saying its virtually impossible, I have a friend who waitresses and an old guy asked her if she like to sit on his face so how impossible is it? And finally how dare you lump this A$$hole on me and guys in general, here's on for you. Last night I got my heart ripped out by a girl who wants to just be friends but likes to lead guys on, does that make you a b*tch? Should I now yell at every girl I see on campus due to the actions of one girl....no. I agree that what was said to you, was horribly lacking in taste, but dont freak out on everybody just realize there are freaks like that out in the world! And the 6uldv8 = sexual deviant, somebody probably said that already but oh well...
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Ok SAEguy.....first off I'm sorry for what happened to you with the girl....it happens to everyone at one time or another and yeah, maybe this girl is a b*tch. Maybe she is a player and likes to mess with guys, and maybe there are a lot of others out there like her, in which case it would be appropriate to refer to them as a group. My point being, this is what Hurlygurly was trying to do----refer to the freaky guys as a group, not ALL guys. But that point is moot now, anyway....perhaps it was worded poorly and that is why non of the guys seems to understand that it wasn't aimed at all of you. At this point it hardly matters.
I think after 30 years I do realize that there are freaks out there in the world. But does that mean that I should just grin and bear it? I think not. That's like saying "you know there are rapists and murderers in the world, deal with it." I'm not trying to kick on you SAEguy, but you are relatively new to the threads and there is a lot that you have missed....there are a number of women on here who just don't feel comfortable anymore because of other things that have happened; I think many of us worry that any one of these unidentified renegade GCers might be one of our "friends" from the past resurfacing.
For what it's worth, SAEguy, I'm sure that your girlfriend wasn't a b*tch.....maybe she just didn't know what she wanted, which is an unfortunate but common affliction among the young college population. You will most certainly find another, I promise!!!!!!!