These teas were definitely NOT Panhellenic-type teas...they were strictly 1-group recruitment events...hence the secrecy.
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Originally Posted by 33girl
I think people were referring more to AnchorAlum's scenarios than yours...Telling a 16 year old girl she's got a bid "locked up" and thereby probably preventing her from looking at all the groups? Not OK. Taking her to fraternity parties? Definitely not OK.
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I doubt they told her she had a bid locked up, but from their actions, she THOUGHT she had a bid. That's usually what happens. I was a
bad mother for not letting my high-school aged daughter go to fraternity parties. Hey! I was that age once...I
know what goes on there!
(Oh, and I'm AnchorAlumn
a...AnchorAlum is from a different part of the country!)