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Ok, I'm sure some would not agree with me. When I was in school, if a girl let her interest be known to me, my reaction to her would probably be in how she approached me. if you come to me and ask, "when are the sorors are having a rush" "how much does it cost so I can save", etc and this has happened. You may not get a pleasant response. Will I disrespect you no, but what i find disrespectful may not be to the next.
If you come to me as a woman in a respectful way than thats is what you get. Also I never wasted my time with folks that I knew were not qualified. Thats part of the problem.
Also I don't think anything is handed to anyone. An interview for a job is even hard. I think we are expected to hold some of these interest hands to be PC.
If people wouldn't take ISH personal than they would relax and enjoy the entire process.
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