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Damasa, you seem to be taking this awfully personally. If I didn't know better (and I know for a fact you are not one of the troublemakers) I would almost think you were feeling guilty about this for a reason. Now I know that isn't the case, but why are you having so much trouble understanding that Hurlygurly was not talking about ALL of you.....by saying "you assholes" she was referring to the group of guys (who knows EXACTLY who they are) that DO engage in this kind of crap. And guess what? THEY ARE EXACTLY WHAT SHE CALLED THEM! There is no reason for you to take offense at something that was not aimed at you, unless you feel that there is a reason that it might legitimately be aimed at you.
Damasa, you are generally a great contributor to GC. You are funny and interesting....nobody is trying to attack you, not Hurly,not TriDelta, not me. Please don't take this so peronally. This problem is not as small or as limited as some people would like to think. Those of us who have had incidents have talked to each other about it and we have made the startling realization that our numbers are a lot larger than we would like them to be!!! Please understand that it is a problem and something has to be done....if not by the GC moderators and administrators, than by us ourselves.
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