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Hey I have a question.....if the pms and ims that some of us have been getting are so ok, then what is the big problem with Hurlygurly's post? So she was mad!!!! I'm mad too!!!! Either we are offended by naughty talk or we aren't....there is not going to be a double standard here. I really feel bad that everyone is ready to tar and feather her for sticking up for me....she heard about my situation and it was just kind of the straw that broke the camel's back. I really wish I had started the thread myself. Maybe I would have used different language but hey....we have all popped off at one time or another. Just believe me when I tell you that she is not the kind of person who comes on here and starts flames and causes trouble....EVER. I am far more controversial than she is....so please everyone climb down off her back....she was just being a sister!!!!
Iowa....I am not really sure how to take your post about our symphony. I think all of us Chi Omegas are familiar with it. It is subject to interpretation....to me being womanly means standing up for myself and my fellow women and not allowing others to tear at my dignity. Being discouraged never, to me, means sticking by my principles even when everyone else seems to disagree, or seems to be jumping on a popular bandwagon. Obviously our symphony is public, not ritual, but I would venture to say that knowing what else is behind it, a Chi Omega is best equipped to interpret and use it.
Again, I am not suggesting or asking that any guys on here threaten anyone. All I am asking is that you don't support those who are acting inappropriately....but hey, even if you do, we'll survive.
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