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Originally Posted by secretkd
i have a problem... I love sigma chi with all my being... i know someone in a chapter who is soooooooo fake, and she goes and tells everyone that, "she will just die if she doesn't get sweetheart"... not only that... she goes around talking about past sweethearts, and uses information that they give her, that they shouldn't give her... now if i tell the sigma chis, i will betray her trust... but, if i tell them, they can call her out, and btw, she will be getting kicked out of her chapter in the fall, but i can't tell the guys, becuase then, i have betrayed her... i don't care if i get sweetheart, i just want them to have someone that will love them, and take care of them... not someone that will use them... what do i do?
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Nothing. You should not get involved in chapter business and just leave the matter of sweetheart election to the members. If she happens to be elected, she may be the best dang sweetheart they ever had. If she does not uphold the standards the position demands, then she will be removed. And for what it is worth, a woman does not have to be a member of a sorority to be elected sweetheart.