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There was a guy that I dated that always had something to say about the way that I looked. Why I lasted so long with him, I will never understand. I was stupid. Anyway, he always had an issue about my weight. Let me point out that I am a size 4. He wanted me as a 2 or 0. Then he said that I needed to plastic surgery to enhance my body, because he only likes dating very skinny women with a very nice chest. There was always something that made him nitpick at my body. When I finally cut him off, I felt very liberated.
To all the women out there: This why you need to be happy with yourself before getting involved with someone. Do not let yourself get manipulated into changing your appearance (physical or cosmetic) by someone who makes you feel bad about yourself. When he starts making you feel ugly, cut him off.
Now I am not against change in a relationship. Improving something is a great thing. It just needs to be your own decision. Do not let yourself get manipulated.
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