Ahhh ZTAngel, I love and hate you for reviving this thread! *wipes away drool*
But yeah, I agree with Scully about the neutral outfit. Maybe khaki pants (dress pants, not like cargo...duh...) and a white blouse? Too boring?
I bought a pair of red heels and didn't wear them for a long time, but I finally wore them and got SO many compliments (and some were from people I didn't even know). They're solid red, so I wore them with jeans and a black top. Anyway, the point of that was this: go for it!