[33girl]

Erika, I was being highly sarcastic about never getting a nasty PM - believe me if I want to see gross emails all I have to do is ask my friend to copy me in on some of the ones her ex has sent her. Ewww, I have to take a bath just thinking about it.

As to Hurlygurly, whoever she is, old new or what the heck ever, the thing that I found not cool was her using phraseology like implying that "the guys" of the board need to do something about over-the-top PM's. That is male-female polarizing, and it is disgusting. So, I guess James, damasa, KABM, are all going to go out with torches and bloodhounds looking for 6uldv8?? (Actually, that might be pretty cool.) We don't need a battle of the sexes on here, especially with the "I am an empowered woman" thinking one minute, and "boo hoo guys, please help me" the next. Help yourself - don't look to the guys to do it. It is not an issue of guys sticking up for guys - it's an issue of the guys really not being able to do a damned thing about it, unless it is the guy down the hall posting and they can break his hands.

Once again, if there is a problem with any user on this board, REPORT IT TO A MODERATOR. Erika, I'm sorry if you were upset, but I don't know what else to tell you to do.