Sorority life is what you make of it...there are chapters that party, that are nothing but study-nerds, etc. There is something for everyone - don't let rumor and stereotype keep you from Rushing. Even if you Rush, you don't have to join. If you decide not to join, then be sure to drop out of Rush before the end. It is inconsiderate to accept a bid to a sorority when you know you cannot become a member.
Cost of sorority life varies from campus to campus - is there housing? do you have to eat your meals at the house? Don't forget that very often living in a sorority house is less expensive, cleaner and safer than dorm housing.
Your first step should be to contact the Greek Life office of the campus you are attending. Have them send you Rush information and then use the Internet to visit the national websites of each sorority on your chosen campus. When you go through Rush, compare the individual chapters to their national goals and ask yourself "do these women live up to their goals?". If your answer is yes and you like the group, let them know through conversation, etc. If they know you like them, they'll invite you back. Most importantly, be yourself during Rush. Don't put on airs or act like you 'party' more than you really do. There can be a home for everyone in a sorority - no one group is better than the others.
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Fraternally,
Barbara
Zeta Tau Alpha Alumna
If you have to go around telling everyone you're in charge you're not much of a leader.
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