[ErikaXO]

I cannot believe the flaming that has started over this!!!!! I am the person that received the unsolicited, obnoxious PM asking if I have ever tried anal!!!!!!!!!!! I may have been honest and frank in some of the sexual discussions we have had on here (as have a lot of others) but I don't think that gives anyone a right to take liberties with me. I can also tell you all that the person who started this thread is a highly respectable, long-time GCer who has gotten a new id due to just this kind of thing.

We can all be open and honest in our group discussions and still have boundaries. Maybe we women need to all state plainly what our boundaries are. I'll start-----hey guys.....I have no problem talking about things in the forums....but I'm not interested in one-on-one chats and I certainly don't need rude PMs from people I don't know asking me personal questions.

What I don't get is all the hostility aimed at the people who complain about the harrassers....if anyone is feeling insulted that they aren't receiving this kind of attention....DON'T. Be glad!!!!!Just don't think that just because it isn't happening to you that it isn't happening to someone else. I myself have recieved undesirable contacts from 4 different people (well as far as I know it is 4 different people) and I am not the only one. So please, be tolerant.

By the way, Tracy, I have to say I am surprised at you and a little disappointed. Your post didn't even sound like you. I think you know that of all people on here I am pretty "savvy"......and to be honest until you pointed it out I had NO clue what the name meant. Didn't even think about it. I didn't realize we had to try and decode names before reading pm's to determine if they are freaks or not. NOW it makes sense.....6uldv8 equals sexualdeviant. How nice.

Telling the admins is all well and good but there is only so much they can do. How many people have we had banned who just keep coming back under other names????