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Old 04-24-2008, 11:28 AM
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How big is the school and the chapters? I think if the school and Greek system are smaller, she's more likely to meet sisters. I know if my chapter would have met a sister in your daughter's situation, we most likely would have said "hi! Where were you an ASA?" and asked her to hang out with us at parties or such, but not any official events.

If it's a bigger school though, it might be less likely that she'll get to know any of them. However, there's a possibility that if the chapter is bigger it might be easier for her to be active...if she was in a chapter of 30 and had to hold multiple offices, she could go to a chapter of 120 and be "just" a member without having so many responsibilities.

And the last option is, it could have nothing to do with size and it could turn out that she and the chapter at her new school just have absolutely nothing in common and no desire to be in each other's company. Sometimes chapters can be funny too....they think if they didn't put those letters on your back, you shouldn't be wearing them around at all.

She can always contact sisters she finds on myspace or facebook and explain her situation. Good luck to her!
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