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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Personal experiences are still opinions and based on only an individual-level version of fact. With millions of people in this world, we can't listen to everyone's story and exceptions to whatever perceived rules.
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That was my point. Parent the child you have according to their needs.
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Yes, under and over-discipline can have a negative impact on kids. There's research on corporal punishment. This is why raising a kid is more than disciplining them when they are doing something wrong. You have to raise them when they are right and wrong.
Spank or not spank = parents' decisions that people can form opinions about but can't be legislated unless there's a clear case for child abuse.
So whether or not people choose to spank, RAISE YOUR KIDS so the CPS or corrective systems don't have to RAISE YOUR KIDS. It's hard for working parents and single parents but it isn't impossible. Even if you feel exhausted, frustrated, and helpless. Find help or reliquish your parenting rights so that another person or entity can do it.
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I don't know if this is directed at me personally or if you're just making general statements.