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I'm going to take money out of this equation because for all we know money may not be an issue for the OP. The time committment a sorority requires, especially that 1st year, is what concerns me. The OP stated that she will always put her daughter first, which I commend and agree with wholeheartedly as a parent myself. I fear someone will suffer in the end. There are only so many hours in a day. Either the chapter will not benefit fully due to the OP's not being able to regularly attend functions due to other obligations, the child will miss Mom who is away doing sorority stuff, Mom's grades will suffer due to not having time to study, or all of the above.
Without knowing more specifics of the situation, not knowing the OP personally or the campus/sorority we are talking about, I'm not sure if a traditional NPC sorority is in anyone's best interest here. Being a good parent sometimes means making personal sacrifices.
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