to be honest, i pledged as a junior without my parents knowledge. they too didn't see eye to eye on being in a sorority with all the bad images of girls going wild and what not. basically i just raised the money myself and plus my chapter was really supportive and understanding about dues and what not. also after i crossed, i told my folks that i was in the sorority and it was for life. nothing they do could ever change that. fortunately for me, they understood. although they prefer me not to be too involved, but i do it anyways. don't get me wrong...i have really really strict folks, but yea- it's possible.
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