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I was a pretty mediocre pledge at first. I attended all of the events and meetings, but I didn't know that I should hang out and have lunch with the sisters and other pledges. I was a first semester freshman and was clueless about pledging so I did the bare minimum, plus I wanted to try everything in college. My big sister pulled me aside one day and asked me why I wasn't enthusiastic, etc. I told her that I didn't know that was expected of me, and I changed.
Maybe your pledge is just clueless also. Have the pledge educator (or whatever they're called now) and her big sister talk to her. Tell her clearly what the sorority expects of her if she still wants to become a sister. Let her know the consequences if she doesn't change.
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