[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I would appreciate the honesty and we definitely wouldn't be over. But we'd be re-evaluating a couple of things, tightening up some restrictions and clarifying the fact that private dinners are for me and only me. Who knows, the whole thing might dissipate--the thrill will probably dull once the girlfriend knows. I'd stick it out, but he'd better watch himself and then set the other woman straight so that she knows the jig is up.

Something to think about: Sometimes confrontation and tightening up boundaries doesn't work. In some situations, the opposite happens. Instead of not having anymore private dinners, he just gets "smarter" about it, keeps having them, but makes sure you don't find out.