[DSTCHAOS]

Close the door and move on.

Doors aren't meant to be ajar. They are either open or closed. Just that simple.

Don't feel obligated to be his friend, either. You don't have to hate him but never settle for consolation prizes, especially if you're hoping and praying for more. Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever.

Don't take this to mean that you have to move on with another man. Give yourself time to heal or whatever. For now, move on with your life and yourself. And also don't feel obligated to go back through that door after you've closed it--if the guy comes back and you're no longer interested, that's that.