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Originally Posted by PADFSUGirl2K2
It's funny that my friends say the same thing about the cop-out thing.
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If your close friends are getting the same vibe I think then that it would be best to move on.
If at some other point in time he is interested in getting back together, you may be available, you may not... and maybe then it might be a good time to start just 'being friends'.
IMHO it is best to not be best pals right away b/c usually the person who got broken up with still has strong feelings and romanticies (sp?) every word/action the other person makes and believes they are on the path of getting back together, when in actuality they aren't. It totally happened to me and I was hurt/angry/sad and that's when I learned to just keep steppin'.
Read
this thread , because it is very helpful
One last word: When you do move on, and maybe a month or two you have a new guy, if this ex boyfriend comes back into the picture, do not drop New Guy for him. In my experience, this always ends badly. I swear ex boyfriends have a radar and can tell when you are happy again, and they swoop in and screw everything up!