[Chief999]

I thought Greeks would be wiser.

You will never find a man who will not be attracted to multiple women. The fact that he CONFESSED his attraction with full remorse is a sure sign that he is a man of his word and his commitments, and that his actions would reflect that of a man of good character, possessed of good morals.

Your boyfriend faced a test of temptation, and he persevered by staying true to fidelity.

If my girlfriend was flirting with other guys but had the self-restraint and respect for our relationship to not cheat on me, I'd totally respect her for that. The thing is, attraction is not a choice. People cannot choose to be attracted or unattracted to others. However, action and behavior IS a choice, and our character and value is based on the choices we make.