I know I'll get a lot of crap for saying this, but if a young mother came to our rushes, I'd be blunt and tell her to save her $$$ for diapers, milk, and daycare.

My collegiate sorority experience was great, but very time consuming. I wouldn't do it. You may not agree with what I say, but the sorority girls in the chapters you plan to rush this Fall may just feel the same way. Just being realistic here.