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Well secrets can be a very good thing in a relationship, most are not important:
The heart cherishes secrets not worth the telling.
As far as fraternity stuff goes, generally only Ritual related topics are secret. Although many people in organizations are paranoid about revealing even simple things, especially involving pledging.
I am not sure why you are upset, unless you think he is hiding events that will alow him to be unfaithful to you?
You might wnt to examine your own feelings and see what the issue is here: are you just really curious? Or do you hate the idea of not being part of every aspect of his life?
Regardless, it will be good practice to get used to the idea that there are things people will never share with you and that you may never even have a clue about. And usually there is no malice involved.
But if you are really miserable you willjust have to leave him because its unfair to try and pressure him to break faith or change him in a fundamental way.
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