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Whoops, I didn't see that your sister went to a different school. Sorry.
What I have seen done, sometimes with success and sometimes not, is that the chapter that she would join ask you to attend pref or if you contact the advisor to ask if you could attend. You may not be able to recruit her, but sometimes it is important for a PNM to see the person they are a legacy to there. This works especially well if you being there is a surprise. You would definitely have to ask and make sure no toes are stepped on, but if the chapter really likes your sister, it could work to her/their/your favor.
Again, I have seen this be an incredible success as well as an awkward situation for the PNM, so you have to handle it with a lot of awareness.
If nothing else, be there for your sister and be a listening ear.
Good Luck!!!
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