[FSUZeta]

i am sorry that your experience with fraternity recruitment has been so difficult. as i read your posts and others responses, i began to wonder if the party your were so unceremoniously escorted out of, was a private party that you thought was an open one. even if it was, it definately would have been more diplomatic to have taken you aside, explained that it was a closed party and that you would have to leave. getting the bums rush seems uncalled for.

please know that the pledges who helped you to find the front door most likely will not know why they were told to remove you from the premises. many of the actives may not know either, for that matter. as others have said, it could have been the decision of one member.

if it were me, i think i would just move on and try to get to know some of the other fraternities on campus. with 31 choices, surely there is more than one fit for you. good luck!