[jon1856]

TCM-This is rather open board and your use of some words here could cause you some more problems with the Greek system at your school.

Your father sounds a great deal like mine; a old friend and classmate of his
did something to me in the business world and Dad just about wanted to string him up. He did cool down a little bit but cut off all relationships with friend. In this case, it would seem what he did end up dong was the best thing. As I have seen and heard other reports that just being a legacy does not do much for you anymore and can in some ways/eyes hurt you.

While I can not speak for my Brothers at your school, it seems as if something went wrong. And it may not have even been you. There could have been some problem or mis-communication within the house.
One of those things one just will most likely never know.
Similar thing happened during a regular party at my chapter house; a new, hot shot Brother gave the bum's rush to someone without asking anyone. Well, the house could have be bombed that night. The "intruder" was a Brother who just flew into the nearby Air Force base in his fighter/bomber jet. We did get matters worked out, and a few of us got a nice ride out of it.
And it could have been even worse-for the jr Brother-there is another base next door as well: Fort Lewis, Home of the Rangers.

I did get lost on something you wrote: How does one re-rush??? I know I missed something, just not sure what.
And with all these friends and family members having been in the Greek world and, I would hope, some sort of information from School/IFC, just how did you not not know how to go through Rush?