Maybe your dad is TOO active of an alum?
That is, maybe he's sticking his nose too much in the day to day doings of the active chapter, trying to get the chapter to do things his way etc. So the last thing they want is for him to be "helicoptering" while his son is pledging.
Please don't take this as a diss on you or your dad - it's not - just throwing out what might be the chapter's perspective. Obviously I could be dead wrong.
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