[cheerfulgreek]

Let's say you're in a monogamous long term serious relationship, and you've been with this guy for 3 years or more. You're not married to him, and you both don't have any children. You love him very much and you know he's the person you want to stay with. What would you do if he was very honest with you, felt guilty and he told you that he thought about cheating on you with a woman he works with 5 days a week. He told you that he went to dinner with her after work a few times, and almost went to her place but he decided not to, because he was taken and he loves you. Would you leave him, or would you stay and try to work it out. Remember he was very honest with you. He didn't kiss her or touch her, he only had dinner with her.

Though I would be very hurt and I would hate the fact that he has to work with her, I would stay with him and try to work it out. I guess since he was honest with me and the physical act didn't happen, I would stay.

What would you do?

Guys feel free to answer too if it was your gf.