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Yes there is something you can do. You can start by not putting them down. You might not be from their chapter, but you are their sister. If you don't think positively about them, who will?
With that said, the best thing to do is talk to your advisor and exec board about it. If you, coming in from elsewhere, see a problem and say something, they may take a closer look at the behavior and what's being said.
Something else you can do is not perpetuate the negativity. If a girl comes to you with gossip, don't spread it.
If this is truly an un-fixable situation and you're that unhappy, you can always choose to become an alumna. It is kind of odd when there is a collegiate chapter oncampus, but I've seen it happen when girls come to KSU from other schools and find that their sorority chapter here is not something they'd like to affiliate with.
This is one of those situations where you're either part of the solution (meaning you're trying to address the behavior) or you're not helping at all. If you're just going to sit back and say "wow my old chapter wasn't like this" and not try to do anything about it, you should definitely go alumna status.
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 04-10-2008 at 05:11 PM.
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