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juniorgrrl, I totally hear you on hanging out with guys. Sometimes it is so much easier to get along with them vs. other girls.
lovelyivy84, I wasn't attracted to him but I know he was to me. I think like most guys, if you are nice to them and make an effort to have fun with them, they assume you are in love with them. I don't think that it is nessesarily true that there can't be any sexual attraction in a boy/girl friendship. Honestly, my best guy friends are guys that liked me or I like them at one time. I believe that it is that inital attraction that makes you want to hang out with them and realize you realize how cool they are and then the friendship grows. So, I definitely understand you on the one party attraction thing. Also, most of my guy friends now I find sexual attractive. I don't know if I like the danger in this because I have a boyfriend (who goes away to school) or what or if it is their attractiveness that first made me want to get t know them. I hope that doesn't make me sound shallow, but it is true.
Everyone has some great insight into this subject, thanks for all of your help. I really hope he calls or I see him because he is awesome and I don't want things to be wierd when I go to his fraternity house.
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