i thought the gift was traditionally a pre-engagement gift, something for the bride-to-be to let the groom-to-be know she was "ready" without being pushy.
i had a girlfriend, well actually my ex' LB's girlfriend... that bought him a really nice tag heuer after they got to that point. we were all on a cruise together when she gave him the gift... it was sweet b/c he had her ring and was going to propose on the cruise anyway!
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