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In my experiece the only times where there has been a REAL friendship between a guy and a girl has been when there was NO sexual attraction AT ALL, or if there was on the part of one party then they were smart enough to understand how the other felt and cool enough to respect that instead of pushing it.
It also works when there is a social taboo involved- like between races, ethnicities, etc.
I have a lot of very close male friends but they are all men that I would never ever ever have sex with. Being friends with a guy you could potentially like, especially when you have a man, can be dangerous. I am not saying that you will hook up but when it is two attractive adults well then feelings develop and things can and OFTEN do happen!
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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