I'm starting to think guys and girls just can't be friends. Every time I get to know a guy pretty well and we get to the point of being friends, he either 1) develops a crush on one of my friends (who doesn't return his affections) and then I'm stuck in the middle, or 2) develops a crush on me, which ruins our friendship because I just want to stay friends. Also, the fact that a girl has a boyfriend seems to make guys all the more determined. What's the deal? This has happened numerous times just in the three years I've been at university, and I've completely given up hope of ever having a guy friend, unless he's gay.
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