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I hear ya TriDeltaGal. Went through that myself for a full year before I found some sweet (but cool) guys who were willing to accept me as JUST a friend. My suggestion is to be honest about what you feel and expect. A big difficulty I had was that the expectations of the guys and myself werent the same and I am NOT one to make out for the sake of making out or appeasing some guy. There were those who thought I was a tease cuz I wouldn't play their game. But thats ok, its not what they think that really matters.

If he calls say "hi" and be yourself and if he doesnt call and you run into him on campus say "hi" and be yourself. In neither case will you reflect poorly on your house. The person you have to be true to is one one looking at you in the mirror.

Can guys and gals be friends? Yes, but as the movie says, there are those random thoughts, which is OK. Having a few thoughts doesnt mean you arent friends or that you have to act on them.